Being a parent is hard work. Working manual labor is hard, but It's easy when you can rest afterwards. I work all day long, as a parent in the morning, as a laborer during the day, and as a parent again when I return home. Some people just don't get it, they are blind. They cant imagine what another person goes through, they can only see themselves. So many whiners out there who feel like they have really done something when they have really done hardly anything. The truly strong ones look down at them shaking their heads. The prideful will have to wake up from their dream someday and realize they are not nearly as strong as they imagined themselves to be.